I've finally found it. It was sitting in front of me for so long, and I never even thought about it. Just goes to show you I should pay more attention. Anyways, Kathryn's been saying this for weeks, and all this time I only ever related it to the clarinets...and perhaps the trumpets.
"If you miss a note, you miss a note. You can't go back for it."
It's so simple. She must have said it about a thousand times tonight, and I only hit me at the very end of rehearsal how much I needed to pay attention to that phrase.
"My favorite song has turned into my confidence-crusher..."
5 weeks ago